“Fathering” methods from a newly minted father:
If you need to work on a laptop and feed your baby at the same time:
To achieve the above, use a special contoured pillow. A closer look (one hand is freed up to do your work!):
To catch up on your sleep, sleep when baby sleeps (avoid treacherous positions though!):
Last but not least, to make sure your baby doesn’t forget you when you go on a long business trip, do the maori :):
I shared about my fellow “comrade” during my stay at the hospital (KKH). Patient T – more commonly known as Madam Tan – went through a very similar predicament as me. Right now it is comforting to know that both our babies are growing strong and healthy.
Some interesting similarities that bonded the friendship between both families (adapted in English from Mdm Tan’s blog):
Both of us were pregnant with our first baby boy.
Both of us had burst water bag between 21 to 23 weeks of gestation and were admitted into the same ward with beds facing each other.
Both of us love to hide behind our curtains in the ward; eating durians! 😛 (because we heard that durians will help our babies put on weight! But clearly this old wives’ tale didn’t work for me!)
Both of us have loving hubbies who came to the hospital after work everyday without fail to visit us. Both hubbies bear all things in silence; willingly and lovingly supported us throughout the entire pregnancy in the hospital. 🙂
Both of us have mothers who are super-women! Both mothers will go to the hospital everyday; bringing healthy home-cooked food which we readily shared among both families.
Amazingly – both of us gave birth to our sons at gestational week 31+ 1 day!
Both our babies were born in July – Xi En was born on 31st July and Yuan Hao was born on 13th July. Think about it.. rare to come by 2 dates who are opposite digits within the same month!
So many coincidences (or God-incidences to us) have created an invisible bonding between both families. It is also probably because no one will understand better than a fellow “comrade” who went through the same “suffering”. I am thankful for Mdm Tan because she had taught me resilience and in the midst of “darkness”; we supported each other. 🙂
Both of us can definitely see this friendship continuing to our sons’ generation!
WheeWheeWheeWhee!!!! That was the ambulance which brought me to the hospital last fateful Sunday. Due to a freak accident at home, I suffered a severe back sprain and couldn’t move an inch. Kim had to call 995 as there was no way to get me out of the house to see a doctor. Just when I thought we had enough of hospitals…
Thank God, after an x-ray, the emergency room (ER) doctor said that it was a very bad lower back muscle sprain/spasm. After an injection and resting for a while, I was discharged.
After watching so many shows on ERs, ambulances dashing down roads sounding their sirens and doctors/nurses rushing to receive patients in an ER and etc etc, it is never as real experiencing it yourself.
It was indeed a really “thrilling” yet trying experience. However, once is enough. 🙂
God, bless me with a stronger and healthier body.. please.
I am surprised when Kim showed me these photos after the ordeal.. Surprised that he managed to take a few pictures in the midst of the chaos! haa… 😀
The ambulance which took me to the hospital
Medics to the rescue!
Emergency Treatment Room